tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4768396032530147339.post3328784865781032146..comments2023-06-24T03:47:09.778-04:00Comments on Miss Pug's Pawfect Wedding: Ch-ch-ch-ch-changesssss...Pug(s) and Bugghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07735973924963064707noreply@blogger.comBlogger16125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4768396032530147339.post-13535423095877922942010-07-21T15:57:46.210-04:002010-07-21T15:57:46.210-04:00ughhhh we are going through some of the same issue...ughhhh we are going through some of the same issues right now a couple weeks ago my dad dropped the bomb (mainly because he is angry about my parents separation) that he prob won't be helping pay for things anymore and that it's all my mother's fault..we have been bracing for the changes to come and are already working on cutting our guest list and talking to the caterer about a much cheaper option to feed our guests something.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4768396032530147339.post-41484868912174029422009-12-09T23:33:43.832-05:002009-12-09T23:33:43.832-05:00Just found your blog & we sound like we're...Just found your blog & we sound like we're having the same issues. Only instead of not being able to afford all we'd hoped for in a wedding...we're pushing ours back (originally scheduled for 8/28/10) to 2011 because the fiance has some excessive credit card debt that I just became aware of. I knew he had credit card debt...but how bad...I didn't know. So, I haven't actually called the venue yet because I am waiting because I don't want to keep calling and rescheduling and I have until April 2010 to do so...and by then I should have a better idea of when his debt will be gone. I just want him to take care of all that debt before we get married and wind up starting it off with a lot of financial fights. Sorry, I'm long winded...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4768396032530147339.post-32293156200310463182009-12-05T19:36:06.092-05:002009-12-05T19:36:06.092-05:00Aww I am so sorry to hear about all of this. I kn...Aww I am so sorry to hear about all of this. I know it will all work out for you and you are right you don't need to go into debt. Everything will all work out, good luck and keep your head up.Mariposahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08153734187050593586noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4768396032530147339.post-28970141230155281042009-12-04T22:43:42.937-05:002009-12-04T22:43:42.937-05:00I think that's every couple's worst nightm...I think that's every couple's worst nightmare. Im so sorry it happened to you. But it sounds like you rebounded pretty quickly and came up with a plan B that will work. Good luck! All that matters in the end is that you have each other.Cupcake Weddinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02808981371272030390noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4768396032530147339.post-76865870037081893272009-12-04T18:00:42.969-05:002009-12-04T18:00:42.969-05:00I'm late with this. But, you know that I am lo...I'm late with this. But, you know that I am loving the changes of plans and I am actually really excited to see how everything turns out! I'm glad that everything is going to be a-ok! :)Katiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01971232144056105034noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4768396032530147339.post-11505662812625012692009-12-03T11:30:26.633-05:002009-12-03T11:30:26.633-05:00I'm so sorry! What an awful lot to have to go ...I'm so sorry! What an awful lot to have to go through over Thanksgiving weekend! I'm truly amazed that they would pull out their funds at the last minute. I know that whatever ends up happening, you WILL have a pawfect wedding. *hugs*Jillreighhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02529040147714097623noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4768396032530147339.post-44337592918631490322009-12-03T00:47:49.804-05:002009-12-03T00:47:49.804-05:00Ms. Pugs...believe me...I have been there & ha...Ms. Pugs...believe me...I have been there & have an ugly little postcard to prove it. I am definitely also giving you a virtual hug! I know that regardless of what you have, who you invite and where it is, it's going to be a GREAT celebration because it's to celebrate your love with Mr. Pugs. I'm excited to read more. Remember to keep your positive attitude... :)E.M.T.https://www.blogger.com/profile/08947127920452665585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4768396032530147339.post-43725959568531842352009-12-02T22:59:36.228-05:002009-12-02T22:59:36.228-05:00I want to give you a virtual hug (not cool of your...I want to give you a virtual hug (not cool of your FMIL to back out so late in the game), and at the same time I want to give you props for thinking fast and staying positive. I know you'll figure out a way to make it amazing, and in the end, you're going to be husband and wife with or without the party of your dreams and that's what really matters. :) Plus, who doesn't want multiple parties thrown throughout the summer?!?! And I bet the multiple locations will allow you to celebrate with friends and family who couldn't have originally made it to your day. You'll make it work, I can't wait to see your new invites!!Crystalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08235334130245833243noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4768396032530147339.post-13887398406906001822009-12-02T21:44:35.480-05:002009-12-02T21:44:35.480-05:00So sorry for what you are going through...So sorry for what you are going through...Jenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00717229551734780531noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4768396032530147339.post-48459068225454154502009-12-02T21:23:31.086-05:002009-12-02T21:23:31.086-05:00Aw I'm so sorry to read about this. Like Laura...Aw I'm so sorry to read about this. Like LauraLou said "you'll make the day (and the other later celebrations) absolutely fabulous" and it's true. I wish you two the best and have a wonderful ceremony!firemuffyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10615794595637457781noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4768396032530147339.post-50008086092144572462009-12-02T21:17:18.039-05:002009-12-02T21:17:18.039-05:00I'm soo so sorry to read this, but I know you&...I'm soo so sorry to read this, but I know you'll make the day (and the other later celebrations) absolutely fabulous. I'm sure it's so hard to give up your dream, but it shows that you and Mr. Pug are more concerned about your marriage and your future (especially financially) together than your wedding, which is so important. I'm still excited to see your plans and how everything comes together!Laurahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14477909099094323936noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4768396032530147339.post-61332091881666662072009-12-02T17:22:24.870-05:002009-12-02T17:22:24.870-05:00You know my thoughts, you know my feelings... stil...You know my thoughts, you know my feelings... still wanted to say I love you and am always here. Who knows... I've always WANTED to go to New Jersey in the summer ;)Laura Lewishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14588756044153877528noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4768396032530147339.post-76399548799681201102009-12-02T17:11:01.081-05:002009-12-02T17:11:01.081-05:00I am so sorry to hear about all this Miss Pug! I s...I am so sorry to hear about all this Miss Pug! I so admire you and Mr. Pug for your outlook though and the quick thinking and plans!<br />I too think your friends will understand. It's not like you planned for this to happen! While I am sure that it will take you some time to adjust to the new plan completely, I think once you are in your dress, on your special day, marrying the man you love, all this will be way behind you. After all, while all the blogging, planning, wedding decorations and so on can be fun, what's important is your journey together as a couple. <br />Keep us updated and can't wait to see your new invitations!Chocolate Loverhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11301400033914265735noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4768396032530147339.post-40384071964879653182009-12-02T17:08:16.413-05:002009-12-02T17:08:16.413-05:00I'm sorry you've had to go through all of ...I'm sorry you've had to go through all of this and that your wedding plans had to change. But it sounds like you're making the right choice (going into debt is definitely not worth it!) and I'm sure your family and friends will understand. It'll still be a celebration, even if it's not what you originally expected. You'll still be getting married, and that's what matters!GMhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02416137629786778346noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4768396032530147339.post-33816763226956732952009-12-02T17:06:47.459-05:002009-12-02T17:06:47.459-05:00oh, reading your post almost brought tears to my e...oh, reading your post almost brought tears to my eyes. about 10 years ago, my bother and SIL had a very similar experience with parental $$ pull-out. THey scaled back, had a fabulous ceremony and modest reception at a local pub. NOT exactly the wedding of their dreams, but everyone had a great time, and the no-string attached nature was ultimately the best course. A decade later, they are happy, with two great kids. Remember - it's one day. Concentrate on the life ahead with Mr Pug. <br />Best Wishes<br />Agent99 - mom to Gen & the Fooagent99https://www.blogger.com/profile/12334005818736489335noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4768396032530147339.post-45881195320761876532009-12-02T16:31:47.085-05:002009-12-02T16:31:47.085-05:00Oh honey. I read your tweet this morning but wow. ...Oh honey. I read your tweet this morning but wow. That is so awful and I am so sorry. <br />I am glad you have your mom, aka your ROCK. <br /><br />I am sorry you won't get the wedding you want but from what you have written of your new plans I bet it will be just as fun. Tell Mr Pug to go punch the wall, it will make him feel better.<br /><br />I am sure your friends will understand, if you don't have the $$$ then really.. you don't have the money. <br /><br />Have you looked into maybe going to a pub? We have had fundraisers in pubs where you get a meal and a beer included in the ticket, you get the back room or insome cases the whole pub. The if anyone wants anything else they can order it.... just an idea..Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com